"… There are different stages of the whole guy/girl process … But, very simply, stop and just realize that we are already made for one another. What I mean is this: God made us incomplete. Our differences compliment each other.
… Guys are not always gentle. If there were only guys on earth, then there would be a lot more angry stuff going on. We would smack each other a lot more, be less sensitive, and so on. What I mean is that a girl is sometimes the natural reminder that we need to be gentle, respectful, sensitive, and caring. It’s almost like a girl reminds us of the grace of God without us consciously knowing it.
God has the incredibly rough, tough, grungy, brute strength that we can recognize when boys are wrestling in the dirt. But he is also an unbelievably kind, sensitive, graceful, and calming God, which are qualities that we often think of as more feminine. I’m just generalizing here, so don’t get the impression I’m saying that girls only have these traits or that guys just like to fight. I’m simply giving you a few examples of our differences here as food for thought. I’m sure girls wrestle in the dirt too… so if you’re a girl and you like dirt, more power to you.
And no matter what you like or dislike, what your strengths or weaknesses are, whether you’d rather spend an afternoon reading a great book, hanging out with friends, or playing basketball, or all three, the most important thing is to embrace who you are and to value how God made you."